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Teaching boys that ‘real men’ would stop rape

by Louise DonovanHannah O'NeilFelista Wangari March 20, 2018

This article was originally published in BBC.

Isaac, a 15-year-old boy, watched as a group of men grabbed a young girl. It was a bustling new year’s eve in Kibera, Kenya’s largest slum, and he knew she was in trouble.

He also knew he didn’t have the strength to fight off those older, larger men. Having been taught to intervene if he sees predatory behaviour, Isaac called over another man to help confront the group.

“Everyone started arguing,” explains Isaac. “The group said the girl was their ‘catch’ and they had to rape her.”

After 20 minutes, they decided to let her go.

“The stories you hear are shocking,” says Anthony Njangiru, a field co-ordinator for the Kenyan non-profit Ujamaa, which trains boys like Isaac to help stop violence against women and girls in the slums of the capital, Nairobi.

“Not everyone is so lucky,” he says.

Changing attitudes

Mr Njangiru teaches a programme called Your Moment of Truth to boys, aged 14 to 18, in secondary school.

He is one of many instructors, and the classes cover everything from sex education, to challenging rape myths, consent, and how to intervene if the boys witness an assault taking place.

Training for girls in how to resist a sexual assault. Credit: Alex McBride

For younger boys, aged 10 to 13, a programme called Sources of Strength focuses primarily on body changes.

The course takes place over weekly two-hour lessons, for six weeks, and each class is divided into two, with girls taught their own set of skills.

Since the organisation first began, Ujamaa has taught 250,000 children in over 300 schools across Nairobi.

When it comes to the boys, it’s ultimately about changing their perceptions and attitudes towards girls.

“If we, as boys and men, are part of the problem, then we can be part of the solution,” says Mr Njangiru. “We can be the first people to change.”

Confident ‘no’

The programme has been working to stop boys thinking that if a girl said “no” to sex what she actually meant was “yes”. Or that it was justifiable to rape a girl if she wore a short skirt.

“They tend to use the girl’s weakness to their own advantage,” says Mr Njangiru. “If she says no, but she doesn’t confidently say no, for them it’s a ‘go zone’ – they just do whatever they want.”

The results are impressive, according to research from Stanford University in the US.

The boys are taught about respect, consent and “the journey to manhood”. Credit: Alex McBride

Following the Your Moment of Truth classes, the percentage of boys who intervened when they witnessed a physical and sexual assault rose from 26% to 74%.

Boys were also found to be less likely to endorse myths about sexual assault and the incidence of rape by boyfriends and friends had fallen.

Among female participants in the project, there was a remarkable 51% decrease in the reported incidence of rape.

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